- Change verbose flag insertion to replace wrapper command instead of goal
- Add -X flag right after ./mvnw for Maven (not after spring-boot:run)
- Add -i flag right after ./gradlew for Gradle (not after bootRun)
- Works correctly regardless of whether javaOpts are present

This fixes the issue where verbose flags weren't being added to the
command because the string replacement was looking for a pattern that
didn't match when javaOpts were present.

Example output:
- Before: cd /path && ./mvnw spring-boot:run
- After:  cd /path && ./mvnw -X spring-boot:run

Fixed three critical issues preventing the verbose logging checkbox from persisting:
- Added VerboseLogging field to ServiceConfigRequest model
- Updated frontend payload to include verboseLogging when saving services
- Fixed loadDynamicServices to load verbose_logging column from database

The verbose logging feature now works end-to-end:
1. User checks "Enable verbose logging" checkbox
2. Value is sent in save payload to backend
3. Backend saves to database
4. Value is loaded when services are fetched
5. Checkbox shows correct state when reopening service config
6. Maven services run with -X flag, Gradle services with -i flag